I don't know about you but I love my friends every single one of them. Despite weather I have known them 1 month or 13 years I love them all...
But Every friendship has ups and down it doesn't matter where you have know them since you were 2 every friendship does .
Tips about friendships and fall outs.
- Its not all over : most fall outs are just small breaks , what I mean by this is falling out doesn't mean the friendship is over it can just mean that the other person wants some time to think and as much as they love you .We all need our own space sometimes and this could also make the friendship even stronger because you might see that you actually cant live without each other being around.
- Speak : you must remember to talk to each other friendship is all about trust and speaking to one another. If you feel that your feeling pushed out or your both slipping away from each other just tell them you never know they might not realise what is going on.
- you don't have to see each other all the time : As I said in tip 1 you both need you own space and your not joined at the hip try to spend sometime away from the other person. Also best friends can spend weeks away not speaking to each other and when you are both back together it seems like you have never been a part.
- Not all friendships will last forever : I know its probably not you want to hear for the last tip but its true some friendships do come to an end but its sometimes for the best .
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I have known my best friends for about 13 years and we have been through primary and secondary school together and we now are going to the same sixth form , I can tell you we have had so many happy memories and so many funny moments such as ,waiting to going in to a science class and my friend has jumped on my back out of no where and we have both fallen on the floor as soon as the teacher opens the door . But we have also had our down's where we have gone a week with out talking to each other and I can tell you its the worst thing falling out with your best friend ,I spent 5 days. Thinking my friendship was over But it wasn't. its was because we both did understand what was going on because we NEVER spoke about what was making us upset .
Anyway,
its Just for you, me and the world x
feel free to comment any other tips :-)

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